Thank you, dear humbled and Tara:
I hadn't thought of it specifically, but the unkindness shown through the cyber bullying by the once "happiest people on earth" bewilders me. Likewise, the "experts" and "authorities" on every subject discussed and argued here baffle me with their tenacity -- "I must have the last word!"
I know of no solution but that one should walk quietly and speak one's truth.